Nursing Care Reflexive Practice Personal Statement

Nursing Care Reflexive Practice - Personal Statement Example Sometimes we just need somebody to talk to so that we can unload what has been bothering us. Once, I have gained her trust then she can tell me more personal things -- things that may have a direct or indirect relation to what caused or is causing her illness. It is an established fact that cases of abuse in the home, school or workplace has been discovered due to the incident reports, record keeping, and even private journals of nurses. The primary requisite to become a confidant is to win the patients trust. FHCHS has observed that "for a patient to disclose private or embarrassing details about their physical or mental condition, they need to first trust that their nurse will treat them with dignity and respect." Knowing my role and what I have to achieve, I had to act within the indeterminate time that I have been given. There is no certainty how long Ms. Smith will be staying in the hospital so I had to act immediately. The first task is to break the ice between us. This proved to be quite difficult because of her unresponsiveness. I tried to spend more time in her room to check on her, straighten her beddings, move the curtains to allow a patch of sunlight in the mornings, at times just to say "hi!" or to ask if she needed anything. I had even gotten into the habit of passing by the minute I started my rounds and even at the end of my shift. I had hoped that this would break the ice. But nothing happened. I tried to make a connection through the visitors that came. But even when she saw that her family and I were in good terms, she still remained unresponsive. Her family welcomed my sincerity and advice. They would even call or pass by during my break hours to just talk. For me, these talks gave me a deeper understanding of Jane. I felt relieved to find out from her relatives that she was just reserved because she was the cautious type and not because she was judgmental of other persons. I also found out that we shared certain commonalities that I know co uld be points of conversation that can make our friendship work if she just reaches out. She made the first move today. Today she smiled as I entered her room. I smiled back and instantly knew that things were going to be different. As I straightened the covers of her bed, she asked that I sit next to her. I cracked a joke to keep the happy atmosphere afloat. Perhaps she just wanted to say farewell since the Consultant has given approval for her to go home. I was surprised that she suddenly opened up. She had started to tell me of her situation at home. But as sudden as she started she also suddenly clammed up when the ward nurse asked for my assistance. I excused myself for I had to first see to the task at hand. I tried to finish fixing the beddings in the ward as fast as I could so that I can continue with my conversation with Jane. I was excited to go see her again hoping that I have finally gained her trust. But when I came into the room, she was again reserved. I tried to coax a conversation out of her by again starting a joke but she did not respond to that. It appears I have lost the momentum. I lost the opportunity to be a friend, to be a confidant and to help her emotionally. I felt so sad because I know that I could have helped her. My feeling